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Career Development : Articles
Dual-Career Couples: Feature Index
Jim
Austin For college and university administrations, the two-body situation is merely an abstraction, at worst an annoying administrative issue. But for members of two-career couples, the issue is far from abstract. For me, personally, it hasn't been too bad. My wife and I have the great privilege of living in the same state--the same house, even--where we share our lives with our 5-year-old son. Good work, a home, a happy family ... I can't complain. Things have turned out far better for us than for some other people I know: Offhand, I can think of two divorced scientist-couples with whom I'm personally acquainted, as well as two separated couples. The failure of relationships never, I think, has a single, simple cause, but in all those cases the relationship was damaged by stress arising from the two-body situation. And all of those couples are--or were--affiliated with a single small college. Extrapolate that to the rest of the world, and it becomes clear that this is a pretty significant issue. Let's face it: These issues are difficult. So although in this feature we provide some stories and some possible approaches to solutions, we don't have all the answers. Your own approach will, very likely, be unique. You might get lucky and find a perfect solution, but chances are the solution you end up with will be less than perfect. One thing is clear: If you're part of a two-career couple, and serious about remaining a couple, you've got some hard choices to make and, quite possibly, more than a little anguish ahead of you. At least one member of most dual-career couples will have to make some sacrifices. If you're willing to think long and hard about what you really value and if at least one of you is willing to be flexible, you'll probably do just fine. Most of our essayists are at least hanging in there, and some of us have done far better.
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